They treat us like Gods doing everything to please us.
In all actuality it’s a plot just to tease us.
Reading her body like the Bible, praising each one of her features.
But even though He Got Game, even LaLa lied to Jesus.
The Final Score
Welp… We have come to the last blog post I need to successfully complete my semester long project for my Social & Internet Marketing class. I honestly hope that everyone who has taken the time out to read my blog has enjoyed it and learned something in the process. Personally, I learned a plethora of things about myself. For starters, I didn’t know I was this emotional! I hope I didn’t bombard you all with all of my sentimental poetry and what not. It was just a different way to express myself and I was having fun with it.
However, the three most important lessons I learned are these:
- Basketball and love go hand in hand — it was almost seamless to relate the two together and think of how it applies to relationships.
- Love takes time — whether you are in love or had love lost, the concept takes time and effort. Be persistent in your approach and remain patient in the process. Don’t give up on love if you had a bad experience. In due time, the right person will reveal his/herself.
- Listen to your heart — your heart will never betray you. Understand that if you have not met the right one yet, God is just telling you that it’s not time. Let God and your heart lead the way and you can never go wrong.
With that being said, I am signing off. It’s been a cool 3 months writing on here and I honestly will miss it. This is the final score. Go out and love without hesitation. The ball is in your court.
#LoveDoctorJ
Fadeaway
Back in the day, my love for you was stronger than words could convey.
But the distance brought resistance and I watched those feelings fadeaway.
At times I want to call you and hit you up on the phone.
Treat you like the Queen you were, guess you weren’t meant for my throne.
Jabbar
Thought I had it all figured out, silly me, what a shame.
While I was falling in love, she ended up falling for lames.
Might sound like I’m sweatin’ you, but that ain’t a part of my game.
It’s just crazy how you go from lovers to forgetting their name.
A blissful blessing is what you were, a distant memory is what you are.
Cloud nine, your love had me in the sky hooked like Jabbar.
At times I reminisce, but our history is so far.
But that history creates mystery that leaves our door ajar.
“3 Second Violation…”
Two choices in life.
Remain stagnant or progress.
You have three seconds.
#Haiku
#LoveDoctorJ
“Always Shoot Your Shot”
Always shoot your shot.
If you want her, go get her.
Closed mouths don’t get fed.
#Haiku
#LoveDoctorJ
Teamwork
No one is ever perfect in a relationship. I have to admit, there were times where I could have treated the person I was involved with better. I was a victim of letting my pride, ego, and selfishness get in the way of loving someone the way they deserved to be loved. While I have no regrets, there are definitely things I know I could have done differently when it comes to the relationships of my past.
In order to truly correct your faults, first come to the realization that you indeed have faults. When a relationship goes sour, understand that you played a part in it not working. It takes a joint effort for a team to be successful. Once it becomes one-sided, the clock starts counting down to the infamous statement “It’s not you, it’s me.”
Teamwork is essential and imperative. Don’t believe me? Just ask championship dynasties like the NBA’s Chicago Bulls and Los Angeles Lakers. Do you think Michael Jordan would have six rings if Steve Kerr and John Paxson did not hit those big shots? Would Shaq and Kobe have beat the Sacramento Kings if it was not for Big Shot Bob’s clutch gene? (Do your research if the analogies I just mentioned didn’t register in your brain.) The answer to both of those questions is no. Teams depend on chemistry between one another to win and same goes for relationships. Put your pride aside and selflessly love the person your with. Maybe one you’ll be lucky enough to get a ring.
Overtime
She’s got the total package, best believe that she’s a dime.
Gorgeous smile, got brains, and her body should be a crime.
That type of girl requires effort, it won’t be easy to make her mine.
But I love a challenge baby, watch me put in overtime…
#LoveDoctorJ
Double Dribble
PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT TO ALL MY BROTHERS:
On this earth, God was generous enough to bless the world with a plethora of beautiful women for men to choose from. They come in all different sizes, shades of color, nationalities, etc. However, there is an epidemic that has cursed the male species for years now and it is time to correct it. This epidemic is called juggling multiple girls at one time (Let’s just call it double dribbling for blogging purposes. Y’all know how my analogies work.)
In basketball, double dribbling is a violation that is obvious when a player commits it. Think of your lady as a referee in a basketball game. As soon as you double dribble, the referee will be quick to blow the whistle, look at you crazy, and tell you what infraction you committed. Players get sent to the bench for dumb mistakes like that. Unless your game is impeccable or you’re just a sneaky individual, there is no way that you won’t get caught when you double dribble.
Men have the tendency to be a bit greedy to the point where we think we can get away with being involved with two girls at one time. What men need to realize is that WOMEN ARE SMART. Women have their ways of finding out if you are dipping in and out of the relationship. Trust me, they are more than willing to go to the extremes of lurking through our social media pages day in and day out or even accessing the password to our cell phones!
These girls are far from dumb. Most times they already know that we are doing them wrong yet they still stay with us. If you’re feeling the urge to double dribble with your girl and the gorgeous young lady in your 3:40 English class, why not just be single? In all honesty, it makes things much easier because you won’t have to sneak anymore. Stop cheating on these beautiful girls because it’s giving good gentlemen like me a bad name (Ladies, holla at me.) #IDribbleRegular
Side note: Don’t get it twisted. Some of y’all girls double dribbling out here too. I’ll leave that topic alone though…
Halftime
Wassup to all my readers,
This post is me taking a little break from all of the sappy and emotional ass write-ups I’ve been making for the last couple of weeks. I just wanted to take the time out to thank everyone who has been reading my blog throughout the semester. I honestly didn’t know what to expect when I created this site for my Social & Internet Marketing course and quite frankly, I didn’t really want to write a blog. I thought this was going to be a boring, semester long assignment and I was going to grow to hate this class. However, blogging actually isn’t half bad. As a matter of fact, it’s dope to be honest. This blog offers me a therapeutic outlet that I probably would not have thought of using if I had not signed up for this course. The whole basketball and love theme I have been sticking to has definitely been an easy subject for me to talk about as I am very passionate on both topics.
The bottom line is, I appreciate everyone who has been rocking with the site since day one and I will keep it coming with some more great posts. I’ve been getting a lot of love and it hasn’t gone unnoticed. Continue to give me feedback on my material and what I need to improve on. I need an A in this course haha. *buzzer sounds* Halftime is over, back to the game. #LoveDoctorJ
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